This year has gotten off to an interesting start with our children. We had two snow and ice storms in January, and we live in an area with many rural and privately-controlled roads, so snow removal is challenging. We also had a federal holiday and have a four-day “winter break” holiday coming up. So basically, including Christmas break, our school-aged child will not have had a full week of school for seven weeks. Many of those weeks only included two school days. Given the rocky start to the new year, our children are what one could call “off their schedule.”
For any of you who have spent time with children, whenever children (or, let’s be honest – adults too!) get off their routine, they tend to struggle behaviorally. They are overly energetic during the day, have a hard time sleeping at night, get cranky more easily, and tend to be more argumentative. Consequently, our family has yet to rediscover our rhythm since the holidays, and I find myself longing for the familiar tempo and relationships.
I imagine the same is true with our relationship with God. We all go through seasons when we get “off schedule” with God. Either we fall out of prayer routines, devotional reading, or study groups. We stop setting apart time for connection with God because other “stuff” gets in the way. And similar to our beloved children, we get cranky, have misplaced energy, and can be argumentative with others. When our relationship with God suffers, the rest of our life gets out of rhythm too.
Of course, you may be waiting for Lent to rediscover your rhythm with God. If so, I totally understand, and encourage you to be thinking about what Lenten discipline will help you reconnect with God. But there is nothing that says you cannot start today with that reconnection. Maybe you need to take a long walk, a yoga class, or a meandering drive through the country. Maybe you need to reclaim your prayer or devotional time, or turn off the radio in the car for some silence. Or maybe you need to turn off electronics during meal times and use the time for prayer and thanksgiving for the blessings of life over a shared meal. My prayer for you this week is that you find what you need to get back to your rhythm with God. Let’s get back to our routine together!