This year, spring has taken me a bit by surprise. I am mostly surprised because we keep having cold bursts, and yet, the budding trees seem undeterred. But what has also surprised me is how unprepared I have been for the emergence of color. You see, in these brisk days, I had become accustomed to bare trees and the dormant brown of the season. As the trees begin to blossom, though, I have been caught off guard. I forgot how beautiful these trees can be in spring. I forgot the soft yellows, purples, pinks, and whites of their blooms, and I had forgotten the beauty they possess. Despite having watched these same trees blossom year after year, I still find myself surprised by their loveliness.
As I have been surprised by the beautiful emergence of spring this year, I began to wonder if I don’t do the same thing with the people around me. Sometimes, I think we get so used to our loved ones that we forget to really see them. We get used to the rote normalcy of life, and we get so accustomed to our routines, we sometimes fail to see the beautiful blooms of the people right in front of us. We neglect to see the ways the people in our lives are changing and growing, and sparking new life, and we fail to see their blossoming beauty. We fail to behold their beauty with the wonder it deserves.
I wonder who in your life has been blossoming without your notice. I wonder whose blossoms are coming into glory and yet you have been too busy to notice. I invite you this week to take a long look at your loved ones. Look at them with fresh eyes, expecting to be wowed with something fresh and inspiring. See them with the eyes of a new acquaintance instead of the eyes of someone who only sees the withered winter version. And then, tell them what you see. Share with your loved ones the beauty you see in them, the new life you see budding, and the ways in which their color gives joy to the world around them.
I suspect when you start to embrace this new way of seeing your loved ones you will see them as God sees them – as beautiful creations whose beauty reflects God’s glory. You can share that gift too – the ways in which you see God’s glory reflected in them. But beware! Once you begin to see God’s beauty and glory in others, you might also begin to see it in yourself as well. If you need a little help seeing the color blooming in yourself, let me know. I’d be happy to help you see yourself as God sees you!